{"id":2439,"date":"2016-06-22T21:00:12","date_gmt":"2016-06-22T20:00:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/laclara.info\/es\/?p=2439"},"modified":"2017-01-01T21:36:44","modified_gmt":"2017-01-01T20:36:44","slug":"que-hago-si-siempre-me-toca-a-mi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/laclara.info\/es\/que-hago-si-siempre-me-toca-a-mi\/","title":{"rendered":"Qu\u00e9 hago si&#8230; siempre me toca a mi!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span id=\"result_box\" class=\"\" lang=\"es\"><span class=\"\">Os<\/span> <span class=\"\">habr\u00e9is fijado<\/span> <span class=\"\">que en las<\/span> <span class=\"\">entradas de \u00ab<\/span><span class=\"\">\u00bfQu\u00e9 hago si<\/span> <span class=\"\">&#8230;<\/span><span class=\"\">?<\/span><span class=\"\">\u00ab<\/span> <span class=\"\">-donde<\/span> <span class=\"\">os damos<\/span> <span class=\"\">algunos consejos sobre<\/span> <span class=\"\">qu\u00e9 hacer si<\/span> <span class=\"\">alguna sustancia<\/span> se <span class=\"\">nos escapa<\/span> <span class=\"\">de las manos-<\/span> <span class=\"\">es muy importante<\/span> <span class=\"\">el papel<\/span> <span class=\"\">de las personas que<\/span> <span class=\"\">acompa\u00f1an.<\/span> <span class=\"\">En algunos casos,<\/span> este <span class=\"\">papel<\/span> <span class=\"\">puede llegar a ser<\/span> <span class=\"\">imprescindible.<\/span> <span class=\"\">Es<\/span> <span class=\"\">interesante saber<\/span> <span class=\"\">qu\u00e9 hacer<\/span> <span class=\"\">no s\u00f3lo<\/span> <span class=\"\">si pensamos<\/span> <span class=\"\">consumir,<\/span> <span class=\"\">sino tambi\u00e9n si<\/span> <span class=\"\">compartimos<\/span> <span class=\"\">espacios<\/span> <span class=\"\">de ocio con<\/span> <span class=\"\">personas que consumen<\/span> <span class=\"\">aunque nosotros no<\/span> <span class=\"\">lo hagamos.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span class=\"\">Sin embargo<\/span><span class=\"\">, tambi\u00e9n es<\/span> <span class=\"\">interesante que<\/span> revisemos, <span class=\"\">en nuestros grupos<\/span> <span class=\"\">de amistades,<\/span> qu\u00e9 roles tocan <span class=\"\">si es que<\/span> <span class=\"\">pasan estas<\/span> <span class=\"\">cosas.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span id=\"result_box\" class=\"\" lang=\"es\"><span class=\"\">Por ejemplo,<\/span> <span class=\"\">es com\u00fan<\/span> con el tema del alcohol y la conducci\u00f3n que con <span class=\"\">las amistades<\/span> <span class=\"\">se decida<\/span> con antelaci\u00f3n qui\u00e9n conducir\u00e1, porque esta persona no bebe o justamente para que alguien sepa que esa noche no beber\u00e1. Esto de no conducir deber\u00eda extenderse a cualquier tipo de consumo de \u00absustancias\u00bb;) Y es muy positivo cuando se plantea de forma rotativa, o las personas se van alternando.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-2367 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/laclara.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/festa_1-695x464.jpg\" alt=\"festa_1\" width=\"695\" height=\"464\" srcset=\"https:\/\/laclara.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/festa_1-140x94.jpg 140w, https:\/\/laclara.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/festa_1-272x182.jpg 272w, https:\/\/laclara.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/festa_1-321x214.jpg 321w, https:\/\/laclara.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/festa_1-450x300.jpg 450w, https:\/\/laclara.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/festa_1-695x464.jpg 695w, https:\/\/laclara.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/festa_1-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/laclara.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/festa_1.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 695px) 100vw, 695px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span id=\"result_box\" class=\"\" lang=\"es\"><span class=\"\">Pero a menudo<\/span> no tenemos presentes otros posibles \u00abaccidentes\u00bb con las sustancias (como un \u00abmal viaje\u00bb o una p\u00e1lida) y, al encontrarse en esta situaci\u00f3n, la gente improvisa. Y a menudo, al improvisar, en vez de hacer las cosas como quisi\u00e9ramos aparecen algunas situaciones \u00abcl\u00e1sicas\u00bb. Quiz\u00e1s no son situaciones que reconoc\u00e9is, tal vez s\u00f3lo os han pasado de forma espor\u00e1dica, etc., pero vale la pena reflexionar para no encontrarnos en estas, o ponerles remedio \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n<p>Si \u00absiempre es lo mismo lo que <em>lia<\/em>\u00ab: est\u00e1 bien hablar de ello, pero sobre todo hablar de ello con la persona que toca! Pero no s\u00f3lo hablar de ello el mismo d\u00eda, sino unos d\u00edas despu\u00e9s. Comentarle c\u00f3mo nos hace sentir, qu\u00e9 consecuencias tiene para nosotros. Y ayudar, si queremos, que aprenda a hacer las cosas bien (o que deje de hacerlo si no quiere aprender).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span id=\"result_box\" class=\"\" lang=\"es\"><span class=\"\">Y tambi\u00e9n<\/span> <span class=\"\">est\u00e1 bien, si<\/span> <span class=\"\">hemos hablado<\/span> <span class=\"\">con antelaci\u00f3n<\/span> <span class=\"\">-y m\u00e1s<\/span> de una <span class=\"\">vez-<\/span><span class=\"\">, dejar de<\/span> <span class=\"\">sacarle las<\/span> <span class=\"\">casta\u00f1as del fuego<\/span><span class=\"\">!<\/span> <span class=\"\">Que<\/span> <span class=\"\">no es lo mismo<\/span> <span class=\"\">contar con<\/span> <span class=\"\">las<\/span> <span class=\"\">amistades que<\/span> <span class=\"\">aprovecharse<\/span><span class=\"\">!<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Y si <span class=\"\">\u00absiempre<\/span> <span class=\"\">me toca a m\u00ed<\/span>\u00ab<span class=\"\">:<\/span> <span class=\"\">hacer<\/span> <span class=\"\">de enfermera<\/span>? <span class=\"\">Pues<\/span> <span class=\"\">con m\u00e1s<\/span> <span class=\"\">raz\u00f3n<\/span> <span class=\"\">tenemos que hablar<\/span>! <span class=\"\">Y<\/span> <span class=\"\">buscar una manera<\/span> <span class=\"\">de<\/span> <span class=\"\">rotar,<\/span> <span class=\"\">de<\/span> <span class=\"\">que m\u00e1s<\/span> <span class=\"\">personas<\/span> <span class=\"\">se encarguen<\/span><span class=\"\">,<\/span> o dejarlo de <span class=\"\">hacer!<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span id=\"result_box\" class=\"\" lang=\"es\"><span class=\"\">Una recomendaci\u00f3n<\/span> para reflexionar: <span class=\"\">no pasemos<\/span> <span class=\"\">por alto que<\/span> <span class=\"\">puede<\/span> <span class=\"\">haber un<\/span> <span class=\"\">componente<\/span> <span class=\"\">de g\u00e9nero<\/span><span class=\"\">!<\/span> <span class=\"\">Nos<\/span> <span class=\"\">explicamos<\/span><span class=\"\">: a menudo<\/span> <span class=\"\">se dice que<\/span> estas cosas van a <span class=\"\">caracteres<\/span><span class=\"\">, pero es importante<\/span> pensar que estos papeles de cuidados <span class=\"\">generalmente<\/span> (<span class=\"\">y decimos<\/span> <span class=\"\">generalmente<\/span>, no siempre \ud83d\ude09 ) acaban recayendo en las chicas. <span class=\"\">Porque han<\/span> \/ <span class=\"\">hemos<\/span> sido educadas en estar m\u00e1s pendientes de otras personas, educadas en ser m\u00e1s emp\u00e1ticas, m\u00e1s valoradas cuando se tiene cuidado de los y las dem\u00e1s, a ser las cuidadoras de su novio (o novia)&#8230; por muchos motivos !<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span id=\"result_box\" class=\"\" lang=\"es\"><span class=\"\">Sea como sea,<\/span> <span class=\"\">si tenemos<\/span> <span class=\"\">pensado<\/span> ir <span class=\"\">de fiesta,<\/span> <span class=\"\">intentemos<\/span> hacer este <span class=\"\">par de cosas<\/span>:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span id=\"result_box\" class=\"\" lang=\"es\">nos repartimos las \u00abtareas\u00bb y <span class=\"\">nos organizamos<\/span> antes!<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span id=\"result_box\" class=\"\" lang=\"es\">le dedicamos un rato <span class=\"\">a hablar del tema<\/span> -con un poco de profundidad y con respeto- con nuestras <span class=\"\">amistades,<\/span> para que no se den por supuestos roles que luego nos pueden hacer <span class=\"\">sentir mal.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span id=\"result_box\" class=\"\" lang=\"es\"><span class=\"\">\u00bfQu\u00e9 opinas?<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Os habr\u00e9is fijado que en las entradas de \u00ab\u00bfQu\u00e9 hago si &#8230;?\u00ab -donde os damos [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":2368,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[53],"tags":[801,628,7,884,885,886,887,795,17,888,363,419,800,405],"class_list":["post-2439","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-general-es","tag-abstinencia","tag-acompanar","tag-alcohol-2","tag-amigos","tag-amistades","tag-conducir","tag-cuidados","tag-cuidar","tag-drogas","tag-enfermera","tag-jovenes","tag-mal-viaje","tag-rotar","tag-viaje"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/laclara.info\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2439","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/laclara.info\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/laclara.info\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/laclara.info\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/laclara.info\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2439"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/laclara.info\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2439\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2440,"href":"https:\/\/laclara.info\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2439\/revisions\/2440"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/laclara.info\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2368"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/laclara.info\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2439"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/laclara.info\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2439"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/laclara.info\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2439"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}